Are Your 2015 New Year Resolutions Cliche?

Happy New Year From Hopoffthis.Com! But, are your 2015 New Year Resolutions cliché? When you hear the word ” Cliche” 9 times out of ten people never want to put themselves in that category, but trust and believe its possible.  Just so we’re all on the same page here,

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” Cliche- a phrase or opinion that is overused and betrays a lack of original thought.”

So, are you already questioning what you’ve promised to change or improve for the new year?

Let’s go over a few that are highly overused and abused new year resolutions.

1. I will work out/ lose weight.

Make sure your actually trying to lose weight, not mentally preparing to say it again in 2016. Are you going to change your eating habits? What about this phrase excites you to get up and do something for yourself?

2. I’m going to travel the world this year.

Traveling is so expensive, including passports, tickets, and anything else you need to do it. Has this been your go to phrase? When is the last time you’ve even been 5 hours away from home. If your going to travel, it’s ok to start small and progress.

3. I wanna change the way I dress!

You could have done that yesterday. Fashion does not mean empty your pockets for the most expensive thing you can find. People use this as a new years resolution to feel better. You are dressing the way you want, right now. Why wait till the new year, to only dress the same in 2 days? Go thrifting, actually go purchase something you would never wear and try it out.

4. I’m cutting the drama out of my life this year.

Stop right there. Even mentioning this out loud means you are full of drama yourself. At any point in time you have the power to change what you allow. Here you are again stating what you’re gonna do this year with certain people. You will have this same conversation, in 2016, with the same people if you wait on a new year to change these habits.

Bottom line people, change doesn’t start because of a new year. Do what you love, embrace your faults and work towards positivity and changing them. You don’t have to feel empty because you didn’t run on the treadmill the first of the year. It’s OK. Pick a day to start and just go. Your results will give you satisfaction in the end but you actually have to start somewhere.

I hope you guys have a wonderful beginning, even if you don’t start today.

Come back to Hopoffthis.Com, we have a new years resolution to stick to this year as well!!

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Happy 2015.

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How To Stop Absorbing Other People’s Emotions

angryemotionHere at Hopoffthis.Com we wanna give you guys some tips on how to stop absorbing other people’s emotions. Emotions can control a lot of things, like judgement and decision-making. Do you know if you’re one of the people who soak it all up?

According to themindunleashed.org, “Emotions such as fear, anger, frustration, and immobility are energies. And you can potentially ‘catch’ these energies from people without realizing it. If you tend to be an emotional sponge, it’s vital to know how to avoid taking on an individual’s negative emotions, or even how to deflect the free-floating negatives in crowds.”

Here are a few that stuck out the most:

1. Identify when you’re susceptible to other people’s emotions:

  • Being alone is the only way your can recharge your energy
  • Your careful about opening yourself to others because loss of communication feels like loss of self
  • Your feelings are hurt very easily
  • You tend to always need a way out just in case your feel uncomfortable, such as leaving early in your car from events or commitments.

2. Discover the source:

  • Ask yourself, are you feelings your own emotions or someone elses?
  • You tend to soak up energy from the enviroment or people you’ve come in contact with. Close proximity to people with negative energy can cause energy fields to overlap.

3. Make effort to distance yourself from the source:

  • Take time to feel the energy around you, what do you feel?
  • Are you comfortable in your space? If not take few feet from the negative energy and see if you feel better
  • Don’t hesitate to change seats with individuals if you feel negative energy in a public place

4. Shield yourself from negative energy:

  • Visualize a space of bright light protecting your energy
  • Think about positive things in your life that have been created
  • Look for positive people and positive energy to uplift your spirits

5. Manage your emotions with care:

  • Turn your curse of collecting negative emotions into a positive, practice setting yourself free
  • Be aware of people who have the energy to bring you down
  • Deal with others from a distance until you manage to control what energy you allow into your space

6. Create a personal space for yourself that allows emotional disengagement from the world:

  • Have an open area that allows you to collect yourself along with your thoughts
  • Enjoy time alone, think about ways to better yourself instead of looking at it as being alone
  • Practice something soothing, like reading, writing, resting and yoga

I hope these steps allow your to center yourself and stop absorbing emotions from other people. Learn to have control over your body and everything that makes you happy or sad. It is important to be in touch with yourself so you can live your life full of health and happiness.

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Queen Virgin Remy Hair

QueenVirginRemyHopoffthis.Com has the scoop on some of the hottest hair extensions by Queen Virgin Remy Hair! Talk about a great quality of hair, It was such a wonderful experience going to the Southfield location in Michigan to enjoy great sounds and conversation at the ultimate grand opening September 14th, 2013. The beautiful Mena Monroe & Amiyah Scott were a wonderful treat to meet as i got the opportunity to take pictures and ask questions about the company. Queen Virgin Remy opened July 31st, 2013 and the journey to success has been exciting. The first location was opened in Atlanta, GA and the second location is located in Southfield, MI. Dennis McKinley has taken his vision for the idea of locations for quality hair to be accessible everywhere and made it a reality. Queen Virgin Remy sells all types of hair including, Brazilian, Malaysian, Peruvian, Eurasian, Russian Blonde, Mongolian and Indian.

MenaMonroeNot only was the event a success, getting an up close and personal feel for the product was more than properly executed. Branching off to more locations and nation wide success is  definitely in the future for Queen Virgin Remy. ” We have a good quality product at the lowest prices in the country, you don’t have to go broke to look good.” I agree 100% and Queen Virgin Remy has been approved by

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Make sure you check out the website www.QueenVirginRemy.Com also follow them on Instagram at QueenVirginRemy and QueenVirginRemySouthField.

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What Is A Smoking Virgin?

20130725-134015.jpgWe all want to know, ” What is a smoking virgin?” Well I have the full scoop! Creators of the earth happy clothing line were excited to give me details on Smoking Virgins. Kayla & Reg developed a strong and colorful bond in 2009 and haven’t looked back! They are the proud owners of the popular Smoking Virgins Brand which definitely defines what a fashionable example is when it comes to “Elevated” Boldness and just pure sexy. This line was established in January, 2013 and is already climbing to an elite level.

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The Smoking Virgins future is very bright and has a rock star team working day and night establishing their brand and focus. They have created a street fashion brand that not only appeals to every subculture but allows a creative concept to identify with no matter what your lifestyle or interest may be. As explained, ” To be smoking your either appealing to the eye, an individual who doesn’t adhere to society’s rules, or one who isn’t afraid to open up one’s mind to new experiences. With that said we have the rest of the concept,” To be a Virgin, it to be new, innocent, modest or not yet exposed.” Smoking Virgins wants to give you the best of both worlds.

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This unisex clothing line will be providing tank tops, t-shirts, hats and eventually every accessory you can think of. They have a serious buzz in the social media world so make sure you follow their Twitter @smokingvirgins & Instagram: SmokingVirgins. Smoking Virgins was actually inspired by a real person but they can’t give away all their secret! When you hear the name Smoking Virgins you are automatically intrigued and wanting more. Future plans for Smoking Virgins are as expected, international and store front locations. I see big things happening for this brand. SmokingVirgins.com is coming soon! I can’t wait to see what this brand is up to next, I know I want to become apart of the Smoking Virgins and you can too!

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